These must be the ultimate, number one questions that I get from most guys I meet… and a few open-minded girls
To answer this one, I like to quote my good friend, and fellow PornStar, Keni Styles http://www.KeniStylesBlog.com …his “advice” to anyone wanting to break into the industry is that if you truly wanted it, you’d be doing it already. If you really, really want to do something you’d just do it. It’s that simple. No fucking around… get on with it.
At first glance this may seem like unhelpful or empty advice, but trust us, we’ve been doing this for yearrrrs now, and we’ve given advice to sooooo many people; guys & girls, we’ve answered every single question, uncountable times… yet very, very few people seem to follow through, especially the guys. Why is that? I think they enjoy the idea of it, the fantasy of fucking sexy girls all day long and being paid seems like the dream job, they love sex, they think they have a big cock, and they can fuck for hours… but the reality is not so simple.
No one will hand a ready-made career to you on a plate, as with any job, there are interviews and selection processes, supply and demand, not everyone is filming all the time. It’s up to you to contact Adult Agents and Production Companies, the very first stage is research; you have the internet at your finger tips. You’ve obviously managed to find my diary as you’re reading it now, so be smart, be creative, keep searching, researching, contact and connect with people… and dont give up easily. You could read this today and feel like it’s the job for you, but tomorrow you may feel different, you may forget, or get distracted, soon a week has passed you by and you’ve done nothing to follow your dream. It wont be long before a month goes by, maybe a year… and eventually you’ll understand what Keni said was true all along; if you truly wanted it, you’d be doing it already. Your future depends on only one thing; what you do with now.
I’ve tried to help people, given them websites and telephone numbers, but they still haven’t followed thru into a full time career. Maybe they didn’t want it enough, it was their fantasy, but not their dream. There’s much more to being a Pornstar than just having sex. Like any other job it’s important to be presentable, on time and carrying the correct documentation. When you’ve done all of that, and a Company has booked you for a scene, those nerves start to creep in, reality hits… you’re expected to have sex with this person you’ve never met, in a room full of people you don’t know, they’re all pointing cameras at you and telling you what to do. It’s not like being at home with your partner! The location may be too cold, hot, wet, dry or uncomfortable, the positions are awkward because the camera needs to be able to see the hardcore penetrations, you need to open up to the light without casting shadows and you need to stop and start for photo sets! There’s a lot to think about except sex sex sex!
A wave of possibilities awaits you, it’s up to you which path you take, I cant hold your hand all the way.
Good LuCk!
(not that you’ll need it…. as you’ll create your own luck)
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aka Clarke Kent
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